Do people seem to enjoy being with you, or do they head the other way when you enter the room?
Building relationships begins with the signals you give to show others you care about them.
Rate your relationship skills on a scale of 1 to 5.
Give yourself a 5 if your behavior is solidly in the first (“Do you…”) column, and a 1 if it’s decidedly in the third (“Or do you…”) column.
For instance, someone who appreciates other people’s humor about half the time would give themselves a 3 for that skill.